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Fear of Failure

Hum sabhi kamiyabi ke sapne dekhte hen aur use pura bhi karna chahte hen per kar nahi pate. kyun? Isska jawab simple he " Fear " jise hum kehte hen " Fear of Failure ". Fear of Failure hota kya he?  Simply bolun toh , Jab hum koi kaam ko karne se pehle uske results ko leke negative  sochte hen toh man me ek dar sa aata he jo hume action lene se rokta he usse hi fear of failure bolte hen. "Fear of failure" ko power milti he aapke personal fear se.  Jab bhi aap failure ke baare me sochte ho aap use apne life ke har ek area ke sath associate karte ho .Example "agar me fail ho gaya toh financially broke ho jaunga, meri relationship toot jaegi, meri social life kharab ho jaegi" yahi sab chalta he aapke dimag me jab aap failure ke bare me sochte ho. Money , Relationship , Social life ye sab intense emotions hen jo bahat hi powerful hote hen. Inn sabme chupe hamare dar se hi power milta he "fear of failure" ko.  Issi liye jab bhi hum action le

Per zindegi itni asaan kahan hoti he.

Ye kahani hai 16 saal ke ek ladke ki jishka naam tha Ram. Ram ko bachpan se hi music me bahat interest tha . Wo har din 5 se 6 ghante practice karta tha . Kuch music toh usne khud compose kar rakhe the. Har ek competition me uske naam ki prize hoti hi tha . Uske gaane sunne pe aisa lagta tha jese Saraswati devi uske gale me baithi hen . Ram bahat serious tha apne music ko leke, apne sapno ko leke.  Iss safar me uske mummy papa bhi use bahat support karte the. Sab ko pata tha bada hoke ye bacha bahat bada singer composure banega.  Per zindegi itni asaan  kahan hoti he. Har din ki tarah Ram ke papa raat ko office se ghar aa rahe the. Barish ka mahina tha , charon aur baht tez barish , town me  shayad current nahi tha , street lights sare band pade the. Helmet sambhalte sambhalte wo bike chala rahe the. Achanak samne se aati ek car ne unko takkar maar di . helmet niche gir gaya aur unka sar sidhe jaa ke pole pe takraya. Dekhte hi dekhte unke uper gire hue pani ka rang laal hone laga. Hosp

Trust The Process

phal se toot ke beej mitti me girta he aur kuch dino me wahi mitti se ek poudha janm leta he. dekhte hi dekhte wo chota se poudha ek vishal ped ban jaata he. Par ye safar itna aasan nahi hota . uss nanhe se poudhe ko kavi kadakti dhup ka saamna karna padta he, toh barish ke paani ka . Hawa , aandhi , tufan inn sabka saamna karke wo poudha bada hota he. Sikhne wali baat ye he ki ye sab  bahat zaroori hota he uske zinda rehne ke liye . Bina inn sabke wo mar jata. Ped kabhi chhaon me nahi badhte hen , unko badhne k liye dhup, hawa , paani inn sabki zarurat hoti he. Wese hi zindegi me hum sabko kuch na kuch problem face karna padta he aur yee sab zaroori hota he badhne ke liye .  "Every Problem is a Gift without Problem You can't Grow" Jab hum kuch physical kaam karte hen toh body strong hota he aur jab hum problems solve karte hen toh dimag strong hota  he. Har problme ke saath kuch opportunity hoti he , kuch experience gain kate hen hum. kuch sikhte hen aur zindegi ese hi s

Think out of the box (Social media & Decision Making )

Insaan dunia ka sabse smart prani , jo apne buddhi ke karan koi bhi samasya se bahar nikal sakta he kuch bhi naya bana sakta he,  kuch bhi haasil kar shakta he. Koi bhi insaan ki kamiyabi aur naa kamiyabi depend karta he uske decission ke uper. yun kahe ki hamara sara future depend karta he humare aaj ke decission ke uper . Aur insaan decision leta he apne experience ko leke. Experience , jo humare sath ghatit hota he achha ho ya bura wo hamara experience hota he . life jo hum struggle karte hen , problems face karte hen , taarif sunte hen , thoker khate hen wo sab humara experience hota he .usi se insaan sikhta he age badhta he. Per aaj kal hum experience lete hen social media se , TV shows se , News channels se jahan ke adhe se jyada chizen fake hoti he. Aur usi fake experience ko leke bina apna dimag chalae , bina soche samjhe hum decision lete hen.. Har din kain fake news aate hen koi kisi political parti ko support karke apna agenda chala raha he , sarkar ke har achhe kaam ko bhi

Believe in Yourself .

Apne sapno ko follow karna aasan nahi hota he . Bahat si muskilon ka saamna karna padta he .   Taano ke sor se bhi guzarna padega . Log tumko ignore karenge, disrespect karenge aur believe, believe toh bilkul nahi kaenge. Ho sakta he tumhare parents tum pe believe naa kare tumhare relatives tum pe believe naa kare tumhare dost tumpe believe naa kare per tumhe apne aap per apne sapne per bharosha rakhna hoga  Me tumko ek story bata ta hun Ye story he ek teen age bache ki jiske papa horse trainer the wo sahar se sahar ghumte the farm se farm ghumte the aur ghodon ko sikhate the wo bachha bhi unke saath ghumta tha kavi iss sahar toh abhi uss sahar kavi iss ke ghar toh kavi uske ghar naa unke paas rehne ko koi achhi si jagah thi naa paise wo apne papa k pickup truck k piche sota tha. subhe uthke apne pitaji ki help karta tha phir apna eklota uniform pehen ke school chala jata tha. ek din uske school me teacher ne bola ki apne dream ke baare me essay likho . likho ki tum bade hokar kya bann